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Help Single Moms (and Dads)

By ShowLove

Pastor Bill Stevens shares about the Gift Card & Car drive. 

One aspect of our ministry is to help those who are the most vulnerable in society, like single moms. Your gifts of Gift Cards and donations of Cars (Vehicles) will go directly to help single moms in need in our community.  Gift cards for groceries, oil changes, fuel, hair cuts, meals, dental cleanings, Christmas presents for their kids, and clothing.

What kind of people are we helping?

November 2018

From Pastor Bill:

Two of the teachers at the high school where I taught last semester contacted me about a staff member who I know, but I didn’t know what she was going through. This dear single mom is in a life and death battle. She has 4 kids at the house and now she is facing breast cancer for the 2nd time – this time she has a rare form that is highly aggressive. She has hit stage 4 which is life threatening.

She is finding her help and strength in Christ, but this is still a frightening battle. To say the least it has unsettled her, her kids, friends, family, and co-workers.

She is going to be out of work for months. They need groceries, fuel, clothes, haircuts, basic necessities, Christmas gifts, Oil changes, etc.

She is in the middle of 7 weeks of radiation and will receive chemo until May. This is probably going to be the most difficult Thanksgiving and Christmas this family has ever faced. She has to drive herself daily 30 miles for treatments. This is a lady who took care of the high school kids in the health office for us when they were sick. Now, she is needing others to help care for her.

Sometimes there are things in life we cannot handle on our own. Even Christ needed help when He was carrying His cross. He collapsed under the weight of it and a man was conscripted to help Him carry His cross. Yes, there are things in life we absolutely cannot handle alone. This lady and the other single moms we have been contacted about need our assistance as a community this Holiday season.

The Gift Cards and Cars will go directly to help these single moms and others in desperate need this year. We just get to be the delivery people! 

Family case workers in Loveland have asked us to help four families who need vehicles. 

  • Family A – A Single mom of 5 working as a hotel housekeeper in need of a car.
  • Family B – A single mom of a young boy, who works as a surgical technician needs a vehicle.
  • Family C – A single grand-mom raising her grandson in need of a vehicle.
  • Family D – a single dad who has a rare medical issue and has two very little ones at the house. They need a car.

These are but a few of the kinds of needs we get to help. 

Gift Card Drop Off Locations

  • Mountain View High School, 3500 Mountain Lion Dr, Loveland, CO 80537

  • Ozzies Body Shop and Automotive, 5280 N Garfield Ave, Loveland, CO 80538

  • Grease Monkey, 1100 Eagle Dr, Loveland, CO 80537

  • Loveland Coffee Company, 620 E 29th St, Loveland, CO 80538

  • Loveland Mayor Jacki Marsh at Rabbask Designs, 243 E. 4th Street, Loveland, CO 80537

  • Dark Heart Coffee Bar, 419 N Jefferson Ave, Loveland, CO 80537

  • Email us if your business wants to be a drop off location.

Download PDF Printable Posters.

11×17 Poster

8 1/2 x 11 Poster

Do a Gift Card drive in your office. Set a gathering date, promote it in your office/business, gather, inventory, seal in an envelope and call us. We will send a representative to receive the cards and deliver them to the single parents that need help the most.

PRESS RELEASE – DOWNLOAD HERE

Car / Vehicle Donations

Case workers have called us and asked us to help some hard working single moms that do not have vehicles. We are asking for dependable, good running vehicles that do not have engine or transmission problems. It doesn’t have to be in perfect shape by any means, but it does need to have a history of being dependable.  All vehicles will be checked over by the mechanics at Ozzies body shop. For more information on gifting a vehicle please contact Bill directly at 970-541-9673 or Bill@theWellLoveland.com

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Special thanks to the Reporter Herald of Loveland for helping us help these single moms/parents in our area! We really appreciate you!

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Jesus wasn’t a Fan of Religion, and You Shouldn’t Be Either.

By Hope For Today

Bill Stevens

Jesus replied “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matthew 11:28-30

Jesus wasn’t a fan of religion and you shouldn’t be either. That sounds strange saying that about Jesus and from myself, a pastor starting a new church. But Jesus never came to bring a religion.

Religion is people’s attempt to get God do to what they want Him to do. Religion focuses on rules to follow as a means of gaining God’s favor and if you do good enough then God would have to do what you ask Him to do. If you don’t do His rules, then He is going to Zap you! This is not the character of the God of the Bible at all. This is god-like characteristics from paganism like Greek mythology.  This was not Jesus’ message nor attitude at all, but that hasn’t stopped jacked-up people from misusing and misrepresenting the message of Christ to control, manipulate, and even destroy other people’s lives.  They impose their own rules that Christ never said and seek to guilt/shame you if you do not follow their ways. People were doing this in the time of Jesus. They had hi-jacked God’s message to shame, guilt, and control others all the while promoting themselves, but living double-standard pretending hypocritical lives. These religionists never tried to help the people they were slamming with guilt/shame. They would rather kill a woman caught in adultery than get them marriage counseling. 

Jesus slammed these religious leaders and lifted-up those who had been hurt by them. Notice what Jesus said about religion:  Religion will exhaust you emotionally because it is so burdensome. Religion will burn you out. Religion will destroy your life. Religion will hurt you.

Notice what He said as the real solution to our problems and our deepest need. He calls us to go to Him, hang out with Him, walk with Him, and let Him carry your heavy loads for you. Only a person can do these kinds of things, not an impersonal religion. Religion only points out how bad a person you are, but a personal relationship with Christ Himself brings you to a place of life, encouragement, rest for your soul, recovering your life, and He won’t make walking with Him difficult. He won’t give you heavy burdens of Do’s-and-Don’ts that you cannot carry.

Christ came to give you life, not drain it from you. He offers God’s love, help, power, mercy and grace all unconditionally. There is no payment plan. The payment was made on the Cross for all of our sins. He took our full deserved judgment on the cross, so we can approach Him without fear of judgment or condemnation. We can approach Him as He always intended for us to, as a loving father, but more than that, our Amazingly Loving Heavenly Father who loves us looks for ways to help us. Yes, He wants to help us. Yes, He will help you. Go to Him now.

Father, help me to walk with Jesus, accept your love and grace, learn of you and your ways, find rest in you, and live the amazing life you have for me. Amen.

Interest Party

By Articles, Blog

Connecting People to the Hope and Joy of Jesus!

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Join us Sunday morning 10:30-11:45 on February 24th

The Conference room in

Comfort Suites of Loveland, beside Scheels.

Always Family Friendly!

What will be happening?

We will be sharing about The Well, a new church start in Loveland 25-34 area.   We will be sharing for about 30 minutes and want to hear your questions.

FAMILY FRIENDLY!

Everything we do is family friendly (bring your kids) unless we state otherwise!

Kids activities too!

Bill and Stephanie Stevens

970-541-9673

Bill@theWellLoveland.com

Stephanie@theWellLoveland.com

Sunday

February 24th

10:30-10:45

Comfort Suites of Loveland beside Scheels

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Helping Single Moms

By Uncategorized

Read the Reporter Herald’s article on the Gift Card Drive.

Pastor Bill Stevens shares about the Gift Card & Car drive.

One aspect of our ministry is to help those who are the most vulnerable in society, like single moms. Your gifts of Gift Cards and donations of Cars (Vehicles) will go directly to help single moms in need in our community.  Gift cards for groceries, oil changes, fuel, hair cuts, meals, dental cleanings, Christmas presents for their kids, and clothing.

What kind of people are we helping?

November 2018

From Pastor Bill:

Two of the teachers at the high school where I taught last semester contacted me about a staff member who I know, but I didn’t know what she was going through. This dear single mom is in a life and death battle. She has 4 kids at the house and now she is facing breast cancer for the 2nd time – this time she has a rare form that is highly aggressive. She has hit stage 4 which is life threatening.

She is finding her help and strength in Christ, but this is still a frightening battle. To say the least it has unsettled her, her kids, friends, family, and co-workers.

She is going to be out of work for months. They need groceries, fuel, clothes, haircuts, basic necessities, Christmas gifts, Oil changes, etc.

She is in the middle of 7 weeks of radiation and will receive chemo until May. This is probably going to be the most difficult Thanksgiving and Christmas this family has ever faced. She has to drive herself daily 30 miles for treatments. This is a lady who took care of the high school kids in the health office for us when they were sick. Now, she is needing others to help care for her.

Sometimes there are things in life we cannot handle on our own. Even Christ needed help when He was carrying His cross. He collapsed under the weight of it and a man was conscripted to help Him carry His cross. Yes, there are things in life we absolutely cannot handle alone. This lady and the other single moms we have been contacted about need our assistance as a community this Holiday season.

The Gift Cards and Cars will go directly to help these single moms and others in desperate need this year. We just get to be the delivery people!

Family case workers in Loveland have asked us to help four families who need vehicles.

Family A – A Single mom of 5 working as a hotel housekeeper in need of a car.
Family B – A single mom of a young boy, who works as a surgical technician needs a vehicle.
Family C – A single grand-mom raising her grandson in need of a vehicle.
Family D – a single dad who has a rare medical issue and has two very little ones at the house. They need a car.
These are but a few of the kinds of needs we get to help. 

Gift Card Drop Off Locations

Mountain View High School, 3500 Mountain Lion Dr, Loveland, CO 80537
Ozzies Body Shop and Automotive, 5280 N Garfield Ave, Loveland, CO 80538
Grease Monkey, 1100 Eagle Dr, Loveland, CO 80537
Loveland Coffee Company, 620 E 29th St, Loveland, CO 80538
Loveland Mayor Jacki Marsh at Rabbask Designs, 243 E. 4th Street, Loveland, CO 80537
Dark Heart Coffee Bar, 419 N Jefferson Ave, Loveland, CO 80537
Email us if your business wants to be a drop off location.

Download PDF Printable Posters.
11×17 Poster
8 1/2 x 11 Poster
Do a Gift Card drive in your office. Set a gathering date, promote it in your office/business, gather, inventory, seal in an envelope and call us. We will send a representative to receive the cards and deliver them to the single parents that need help the most.
PRESS RELEASE – DOWNLOAD HERE

Car / Vehicle Donations

Case workers have called us and asked us to help some hard working single moms that do not have vehicles. We are asking for dependable, good running vehicles that do not have engine or transmission problems. It doesn’t have to be in perfect shape by any means, but it does need to have a history of being dependable.  All vehicles will be checked over by the mechanics at Ozzies body shop. For more information on gifting a vehicle please contact Bill directly at 970-541-9673 or Bill@theWellLoveland.com

Send this page to your phone
TEXT  loveland   TO  77453

Special thanks to the Reporter Herald of Loveland for helping us help these single moms/parents in our area! We really appreciate you!
Read the full story online here!

Get Email Updates

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Merry Christmas from The Stevens Family

By Uncategorized

Merry Christmas! 

The Stevens family wishes you a very merry Christmas!

What is the meaning of Christmas?

It was the beginning of the biggest Rescue operation in the universe. God Himself stepped out of Heaven to rescue people from their defiance and personal rebellion that had brought death. The Angel Gabriel told Joseph:

 “And she will have a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” Matthew 1:21

Christ Jesus didn’t come to kick us, condemn us, guilt/shame us and tell us how bad we are. Not at all – man-made religion does that. Jesus came to bring us life!

“For this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him.”  John 3:16-17

His recue operation brought us Reconciliation with God.

“And all of this is a gift from God, who brought us back to himself through Christ. And God has given us this task of reconciling people to him. For God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, no longer counting people’s sins against them. And he gave us this wonderful message of reconciliation.” 2 Corinthians 5:18-19

His brought us Redemption and Forgiveness.

“He is so rich in kindness and grace that he purchased our freedom with the blood of his Son and forgave our sins.”  Ephesians 1:7

So when you have personally received this loving gift of God, you know personally the forgiveness of God and the love of God in your life. This is cause for world-wide celebration! This is a cause to be Merry and to give gifts in celebration because of God’s amazing gift to us! Christ Himself!

Merry Christmas from the Stevens family!

A Thanksgiving To Remember

By Uncategorized

A Thanksgiving to Remember

November 22, 2018

Bill Stevens

It was Thanksgiving week of 2012, 45 miles below New Orleans, and as I lay down one night that week, I was so sick I thought I was going to die and not wake up the next morning, but the thought of my wife and our five kids without me kept me going. We were all so sick, I didn’t know if one of them wouldn’t make it through this either. We – the entire family – had been severely sick for a long time, but it kept getting progressively worse, until one of our daughters (7) had a severe seizure one Wednesday morning in October.

The ambulance carried us to the hospital and after extensive tests the panel of doctors said, there is nothing physically wrong with her, she must have been exposed to something that would cause a seizure. We asked the church to pray that night for God to show us what was wrong and what we needed to do – that night when I got home – by chance I saw a small bit of black coming from an AC vent. I pulled the cover and it was full of mold, and not only that one – every vent was full of it as far as we could see. It was toxic mold – the kind that could kill you slowly and painfully, and it was killing us.

We left that October night and stayed in a hotel, and a friend allowed us to stay in his rent house – which was an absolutely amazing place. We walked away from that house with nothing – bought two changes of clothes and threw the others away. A month later and still no answer from the insurance company, and facing Thanksgiving very ill and troubled.

There were many nights I was up crying out to God praying for Him to intervene. I didn’t know what to do. When you are barely functioning and needing wisdom to move forward, it was distressing.

But that Thanksgiving week God began to clearly move in our lives.

God gave us hope.

Out of the blue a friend called, an older pastor, mentor and prayer partner. I had wrote him and told him what was going on and how we needed urgent prayer. He called and gave us a word from God’s Word. He said, this passage has given me great comfort at different times in my life and it may be God will give you comfort through it too, Psalm 66. Strangely enough, I had been reading it that week and looking at how God delivered His people before, and that He doesn’t change. I knew God was speaking to me through His Word to give me hope. Quite a few verses stood out, but v9 that says “you kept us among the land of the living and you have not let our feet slip.” In that moment, God spoke to me and gave me a word that we would not die but He would carry us through this. Our sickness was temporary not permanent.

God helped me overcome my complaining.

I was laying in bed one night on our deluxe air mattress complaining why things were the way they were in our lives. I was having an old fashioned pity party after midnight one of those nights. It wasn’t but a couple of hours later and a church member called and said his dad was dying and asked if I could come over. I stood by a bedside of a man really dying at 3:00 that morning and with a family who was really grieving, and God spoke to me saying, “Remember your situation is temporary, you have nothing to complain about.” And embarrassed and humbly I said, “Yes, Lord.”

God gave us more hope.

The chief inspector came out to house to find the problem and saw a small vent pipe leak causing hidden mold growth throughout the house, which would lead to months later of insurance company feet dragging and eventually for them to admit that they would pay for the loss of the house.

God gave us all perspective.

As we gathered around the plastic folding Thanksgiving table and our sports chairs that was our furniture. They were grieved over loosing everything in the house – everything. If it could not go through a dishwasher, we could not clean it or keep it. The kids were upset and rightly so, but not as upset as our family friends who was my life long friend, introduced Stephanie to me, and our kids are friends with each other. They lost their 17 year old son earlier that year on the operating table to a heart birth defect. I was there with them and I have never felt grief, pain, and heaviness like that ever before – nor do I want to ever again. We gathered our kids around the table, held hands, and prayed for our friends who had a child missing from their Thanksgiving table. They would gladly trade their trouble for ours, as would so many others. Many times we need to see our troubles in light of others to help us with our perspective.

God gave me a freedom from the depression of the situation.

I was alone late another night that week. Every moment of the day was a challenge to have a good attitude and trying to shepherd our kids in the right direction. Some days I failed miserably. I was praying that night to get out of this funk, and as I was praying I remembered the only way to get out from under my circumstances was to get my eyes on Someone greater than everything going on in my life, King Jesus. So I began to focus my thoughts on God and began to praise Him for who He is, and His greatness, His goodness, His love and care for me and my family. I still remember that night vividly  and my time of praise of Him – it freed me deeply from a dark cloud surrounding me and keeping me from seeing that God is sooo much bigger than anything I will ever face, and He could stop it in a moment.

God gave me a word for the future as I was praying that same night.

That same night in praise during Thanksgiving week 2012, I began to write down everything I thought God was telling me to do and I needed to do. Two very heavy things on me were to start our own ministry and to develop a mailing list. I didn’t know what that meant and didn’t realize it until much later, the Summer of 2016 when we knew God was calling us to plant churches that would plant other churches in northern Colorado.

God gave us hope to endure.

God kept speaking to me in Psalm 66 especially in verses 10-12. “For you, O God, have tested us; you have tried us as silver is tried. You brought us into the net; you laid a crushing burden on our backs; you let men ride over our heads; we went through fire and through water; yet you have brought us out to a place of abundance.” Psalm 66:10–12 (ESV)  

The next five years was going to be an endurance test of numerous hardships that would solidify our faith in God’s active presence in our lives. We saw Him do amazing things for us, but it was difficult. October 2012 began a series of unfortunate events for the next 23 months including losing everything we owned twice in 12 months, sleeping on air mattresses/mattresses on the floor in one room for 14 months, homeless for 9 months, and then unemployed for one year ending in September 2014. The trouble was far from over, but we knew God was with us and that was enough.

Bad stuff and good stuff happens to everyone, but God is always there no matter what is happening.

Come and hear, all you who fear God, and I will tell what he has done for my soul. I cried to him with my mouth, and high praise was on my tongue. If I had cherished iniquity in my heart, the Lord would not have listened. But truly God has listened; he has attended to the voice of my prayer. Blessed be God, because he has not rejected my prayer or removed his steadfast love from me!” (Psalm 66:16–20, ESV)

 So we are now starting a church in Loveland Colorado focused on Giving Hope.

Why? We know what it feels like to not have it and that is a terrible place to be, and we believe everyone – every family no matter their social status could use a little more hope. Everyone has troubling times – some times it is for long seasons, but God wants to carry you and your friends through those times.

If is were not for our relationship with Christ – we would have never made it through it. God is good – all the time. 

Read Psalm 66 here

When Others Disappoint You

By Eagles Nest, Leadership Training

Many times life brings disappointment from leaders we really respected. Disappointment, grief, pain, and even disillusionment can take over your life if you are not careful. Learn some key ways to overcome disappointment today from Pastor Bill Stevens.

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Overcoming Discouragement

By Eagles Nest, Leadership Training

Discouragement is a word when you lose courage. You can lose courage and want to give up on life, your dreams, and your calling.  Don’t! God wants you be encouraged not discouraged! You can receive your victory no matter how bad things look!  Listen to Pastor Bill Stevens as he teaches the team at The Well on Overcoming Discouragement.

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My Life Changing Experience with Christ – Bill Stevens

By Encounters with Jesus, Hope For Today

Can people change?  I will answer this at the end.

I haven’t always been a pastor. Actually, I would have been voted least likely to become a pastor.  The days of me having cool hair in my 20’s are gone. The Mohawk, with painted shaved stripes in my head, and sweet dangly earrings are well behind me.

I thought I was living the Good Life!

I put my hope in the next best thing to satisfy my life. The newest car, the next relationship, money and more money, the next party, the next drink, the coolest and newest technology – none of these never satisfied. It always left me empty. I was always angry and frustrated at life, looking for fulfillment in things and people that could not fill my emptiness.

It left me with a string of regrets and brokenness. 

I did this for 11 solid straight years, from 14 to 25. I knew dozens of bar tenders by their first name, …. well, I knew the bouncers better than the bar tenders.

Then someone invited me to a party they were having once a week.

Not your normal party. A party with snacks, hanging out, some life coaching, and discovering the Bible together. It took a while, but after learning who God was I had a radical life changing experience with Christ. No, I did not get religion – I encountered the living God through faith in Christ.

 When I understood that Christ Jesus is God who became a man.

  • Christ revealed the Father to us.
  • Christ Jesus died for my sins – all of our sins, taking the guilt, shame, and punishment we deserve for our rebellion.
  • How do we know what He did was sufficient to remove our guilt, shame, and reconcile us to God?
  • He proved this by being raised from the dead on the 3rd

I called out to God and said

  • Father, Forgive me.
  • I am turning away from my wrong ways.
  • I want to follow Jesus.
  • Thank you for dying on the cross to rescue me from my myself.
  • Thank you for forgiving me.

Instantly, my life was changed. 

Instantly, I encountered the living God. He didn’t punish me, shame me, guilt me – He forgave me. Instantly I was filled with His love, His peace, and His joy.

How did I know I was forgiven?  How do you know you have been forgiven?  How do you know that you have a shirt on?  You have experienced putting it on and the feeling of wearing it. It is not mental gymnastics where you try to manage guilt/shame, but a real experience and ongoing experience with God personally knowing you have been forgiven.

Since then… I have experienced some serious transformation. This is what Christ promises when we follow Him. The anger and the frustration, hoping for the next best thing to satisfy me – gone. I found satisfaction in Christ Jesus.  Christ will take our broken lives and turn it into something so much more satisfying and rewarding! 

Another Change of Direction

After that time I experienced some significant business success and was offered to purchase at that time, a leading tractor company in Louisiana. I knew that is what I had always wanted, but the more I prayed about it and read God’s Word, I knew God wanted me pursuing a ministry path. So 23 years ago, I started a ministry path of theological education and serving various churches as lead pastor and administrator, or leadership development and teaching pastor. I have owned a software development company and a digital marking firm, but the most satisfaction I have ever had has been helping others find their Hope in Christ.

 Can people change?

People can change themselves some on our own, we can never reach deep into our heart and change it. The motives, the wrong desires, the emptiness. Only God can reach into the dead part of our lives and bring life to it.  However, I am absolutely certain of God’s power to radically change and transform anyone’s life and to fill it with love, peace, and joy! I’ve experienced it.

I look forward to meeting you and hearing your story!

Check out one of our community groups! I know you will be blessed through that experience! Thanks for listening!

But more importantly, you can find forgiveness in Christ today..  Read here to see how Christ removes our guilt, shame, forgives us and transforms our lives. 

Reach out and connect with me.

Bill Stevens

Bill@theWellLoveland.com

How Did Jesus Treat Women?

By Hope For Today

How did Jesus treat women?

October 9, 2018

Bill Stevens

Jesus is The Gold Standard how women should be treated.

Why? He is the Creator who stepped out of Heaven (John 1:10) to dwell on Earth for a while to help reconcile us to God the Father. If anyone should know how the masculine should treat the feminine, it would be the Creator, Christ Jesus.

But women in the times of Christ were treated horribly.

  • Women in the time of Christ were treated as chattel, a possession, and an object to be used as one wants. One rabbi said a man could divorce his wife is she burnt his toast, thus leaving the divorced woman as a single woman unable to remarry and if she did she would be considered an adulteress.

  • Women were not allowed to talk to men in public. If they did, they were considered prostitutes.

  • Women were not allowed to sit and learn under a Rabbi (scholars of the day). No university for you girls – get married, stay home, and make babies. There is no career advancement for you outside of the house.

  • Women were relegated to degraded servanthood for the most part.

  • Imagine how that went over in the marriage relationship. Imagine being married to someone who thought or even thinks like that today. And unfortunately, there are plenty.

We are talking a messed-up view of women and toxic masculinity at its apex.

 

And this is one reason why Christ came to help us understand how He made us, how He expects us to treat one another, and empower us personally to see others as He does.

 

A medical doctor at the time of Christ researched/documented his life and those he impacted, and wrote a detailed account of it.  Look at this connection he describes that Jesus had with some women.

 

 “Soon afterward Jesus began a tour of the nearby towns and villages, preaching and announcing the Good News about the Kingdom of God. He took his twelve disciples with him, 2 along with some women who had been cured of evil spirits and diseases. Among them were Mary Magdalene, from whom he had cast out seven demons; 3 Joanna, the wife of Chuza, Herod’s business manager; Susanna; and many others who were contributing from their own resources to support Jesus and his disciples.” Luke 8:1-3 (NLT).

 

Jesus had chosen 12 disciples and there were other men who followed along as well, but there were also numerous women who followed Jesus as a Rabbi. They would sit at his feet as He taught the men and Jesus welcomed these women. Liberal heresy is what some of the religious scholars of the day said! But Jesus values everyone. Everyone is gifted uniquely and has special gifts and talents. He made us that way and wants us to use them in a way that honors Him.

 

Notice some of these women were on the outside of cultural acceptability in the respectable religious circles.

  • Women who had been cured of evil spirits and diseases. Many of these were outcast and not even allowed in the city because of their conditions.

  • Mary Magdalene – considered a demon possessed prostitute at one time, now a free and forgiven lady sitting at the feet of Jesus learning of Him and His ways. She was clearly a non-traditional student!

  • Joanna the wife of King Herod’s business manager. King Herod was a detestable toxic-masculine politician (Mark 6:17-29) who after watching his adopted daughter perform a “pole dance”, he agreed to give her anything she wanted, so she asked for John the Baptist’s head on a silver platter. Joanna was married into the political establishment and was following Jesus.

  • Susanne, whom we don’t know much about, but she was clearly was in business of some kind, and helped support the work of Christ’s ministry. Most of His meals and the disciples meals were through those who supported them, and imagine how the multitudes of poor people they helped with financial needs. A woman in industry at the time of Christ was not a common occurrence nor socially accepted practice. Susanne exhibited such a lifestyle of servant leadership that God honored her in His Word!

There are so many other references to Jesus and women. These are just a few of them.

  • John 4:1-26 – Jesus speaks to a Samaritan woman alone. Jews didn’t speak to the biracial Samaritans much less a man speaking to a woman in public. The Jews of that day disdained them as “half-breeds.” But not only did He speak to her, He forgave her of a lot of regrets, then spent a few days with the village.

  • John 8 – Jesus forgives a woman caught in the act of adultery. According to their law, she should have been stoned to death, but Jesus in His love stood between her guilt/shame and her condemners. We need more of that today.

  • Luke 7:11-17 – Jesus raises a widow’s only son from the dead. He was her joy but also her source of support. Jesus cares about widows and single-moms.

  • Luke 7:36-50 – A prostitute comes in at dinner at begins washing Jesus’ feet with her hair and puts oil on them as a moisturizer, and a sign of affection and blessing. Others stood around gawking, but He saw it as a sign of thankfulness for all the love and forgiveness He had shown her.

  • Luke 13:1-17 – Jesus heals a disabled woman. Why? Because she needed help and couldn’t work! So many women are crippled financially and need someone to help them today, not take advantage of them.

This is the Golden Seal of Jesus upon the value of women!

The first person Jesus appears to after His resurrection was not any of the disciples whom He had camped out with for the previous 3 years, but a woman, Mary Magdalene. See Mark 16:9-11.

Yes, the first person the glorious resurrected Christ appeared was a former demon possessed prostitute who had a radical life changing experience with Christ and became a Christ-follower. This is a huge statement by Sovereign God on the importance and His desire to elevate women.

So what does this mean for us today?

Men and women clearly have different gifting and roles. Men are clearly stronger physically and women are equipped to carry and nurse babies. He made us equal in importance to him and we should all see each person as an equal in importance and value to Christ. However, we are made and gifted differently so we should highly respect each other as someone whom God has made in His image and likeness.

Do our desires clash at times with each other? Yes, that is why we need a Savior, Christ Jesus. He came to rescue us from ourselves and our desires that go wrong. Look to Him for your help and encouragement today! He loves you… Immensely!  He can help you understand yourself and how you should treat and view the opposite sex. Men should always treat women with dignity, respect, and as equals no matter their relationship or roles. 

Jesus treated women the way I want my daughters to be treated. And Jesus treated women the way I want my sons to treat women. He is the embodiment of real masculinity and strength under control. He created the masculine as well as the feminine. We should look to Him to understand our identity.

So God created human beings in his own image. In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” (Genesis 1:27, NLT)